Career for me is more than just a function or source of stability. It’s about my true self, it’s about meaning. It’s important for me to feel the fulfillment from what I do.

We are all systems, and we live in multiple bigger systems. We all have different parts of ourselves, “voices” in our heads, many feelings and thoughts – the whole world inside every individual. Our bodies are systems.

I’m okay – just the way I am. I don’t need to fix myself. I don’t need to be in a constant fight. I don’t need to be stuck in reflections on what needs to change.

Until some moment, I’d never thought that people can have different ways of making decisions. Then I noticed friends often asking me how I was able to choose fast.

Who am I? What do I want? What will I never agree to? Until the age of 25, I thought I knew it all: I felt confident, self-reliant, and free.

For a large part of my life, I’d looked at change as something you decide and make happen. So you assess your current state, identify what you want to change and how that should be instead.